How to motivate ?

Provision of strength to make a person motive is motivation. Motivation has a positive reflection on life. It forces you to take challenges.

Motivation has two aspects. They are internal motivation and external motivation. one can strengthen their weakness by encouraging his inner mind. Internal motivation is based on self interest. hard working and effort. External motivation is getting from society like parents ,superiors , advisors etc . Motivation through appreciation is a form of external motivation in which person getting recognition from society. Also interest can be stimulated by giving rewards or prizes.

Combination of both internal and external motivation results in efficiency of the work. For example ,a partially deaf person who is financially poor is adviced to wear hearing aid .Hearing aid is sponsored by a welfare organization. But he is ashamed to use hearing aid because of shyness. If he make an effort to neglect shy with an interest to regain hearing, he can overcome struggles.

Motivation inspire you to come out of shell.

Motivation and success

Motivation is a driving force which direct a person to a particular way. Motivation is linked with success .if you demand a person to do something and giving continuous reinforcement the outcome will be successful completion of the task.

 Motivation is a good aid to transform weaker to stronger. Person who is weak in academical and occupational level will be shy and introverted They were always recede from activities because of lack of self -esteem and confidence. Periodic strengthening and support to such weaker groups is helpful to enable them working productively.

Loneliness

Loneliness is the state in which a person spent his time alone . According to Carl Jung loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you. 
 Many people prefer loneliness when they feel stress .The stress may be related with family issues, financial problems , academical reasons ,official matters etc. spending time alone will relax human mind and promote thinking process . As thinking progresses, decision making will be easier .

 Loneliness adds beauty to life. Hence it stimulate creativity, some authors chooses sitting and travelling alone for writing articles . Spending leisure time alone will refresh your mind and explore your feelings.
 There is a controversy about this opinion. Some people hate loneliness. They says sitting alone will make them mad. Such people are always like to be encircled by friends and depend them for problem solving by sharing their feelings with them. But my opinion is sitting alone is better than sharing problems with a faithless person.
 Loneliness is the poverty of self and solitude is the richness of life.

How to gain confidence ?

Confidence is the belief that you are able to do things well. Even though some people are educated, financially settled ,having good family background, they are not willing to take risk because of their lack of confidence and pessimistic thinking. If you have a confident mind and positive thinking ,you can face problems in a straight way and bring it to pass. 
 Everybody can gain self confidence. There are many suggestions regarding how to gain confidence. First of all, you should have a belief in your self. If you have a feeling of faith in self and you are approaching things in a positive way, problems will solve easily. Identification of your talents and abilities is another suggestion. Once you realized your capacity, you must have a mentality to develop that by utilizing all possible opportunities .Make use of your skills and capacities and assessment of the quality and quantity of result is also a better option to improve your confidence . Getting positive outcome will encourage everybody to take new challenges in life .

Success

The word success denotes fulfillment or achievement of a  plan of action. Success provides you both mental satisfaction and social progression , mental satisfaction means of goal achievement and social progression by means of academical development  , work promotion, financial progress improvement of social relations etc. Also success gives brightness to you life and makes you more energetic to move forward to aim and achieve more targets.
      Success is influenced by various factors like confidence, motivation, self discipline, commitment, hard working etc. Experience of success not only help you to identify your own potentials , but also encourage the society for their development.  

Confidence and success

Confidence is a mental power to take over risk. People overview crisis situations in different in different ways. If a person handle the task with faith, commitment and self confidence , ultimately he can complete the work successfully.
    Success in life involves many things. Among them confidence plays a major role. Sines human life is is moving in a complicated way, man has to struggle for his existence and there the issues of problem solving arises. We can approach problems in two ways, either flight or fight. Those who scare  to take risk will exclude such situations by using defense mechanisms. On the other hand , others will over come such issues with will power. Person approaches problems with a fight mind will gain success and achievements.

Fear

Fear is an unpleasant emotion caused by the threat of danger or pain. Extreme stage of fear is called phobia. Severity of fear varies according to mental stability.